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Keng Ling
Jasmine
Liying
Loretta
Ak
Gladys
Siti
Sakeenah
Sam
Chelsea
Isabell
Clare
Marilyn
Melissa
Alaine
Jasmine
Liying
Loretta
Ak
Gladys
Siti
Sakeenah
Sam
Chelsea
Isabell
Clare
Marilyn
Melissa
Alaine
If your names are there, you are kindly advised to read it.
What I am about to say next might sound harsh because this is what I had been keeping it inside. I am going to voice out and this time, yes it is going to sound extremely one sided. I watched and listened everything that revolves around and I've got sick being the one, accused and helpless. So this is why I am doing this right now.
The way I listed the names, they could tell what I am thinking or what I am going to say. Let me start off with Gladys... She disappeared and that is the highlight of this end of year holiday. Beginning, I was mad but now, not so anymore. It probably sound like I had given up on her but come to think of everything she had done during the times when she was still present. I felt is memories that she left, just like as though she had died. ( touchwood ) If my best friend ever leave this world, will I still lose her as a best friend? No, I won't. Because my heart still remain that room for her. Remember the time when she came back from America and being a total bitch? In the end, I forgive her. We were all back in harmony. ( No offense ) The times, when she and Isabell was damnn close and I felt I am not anymore. Indeed I was angry but awhile, I still have her back as a best friend.
Another person, I would like to say is... Loretta. ( I hope she don't kill me ) Sometimes she gets the living nerve on me but I couldn't bring myself to really hate her. Why? Because she make a big change in my life. She makes me happy and I don't know why I just don't want to lose her. Siti knows it. She knows there are times when I am angry with Loretta but I just can't be angry in front of her because everytime, when I see her. I will turn back to 'best friend' channel. If I couldn't tolerate, wouldn't I have just burst and severe ties with her? NO! I WON'T AND WHY? Because she is one of my true friends, though sometimes she makes me angry but that only holds 5 % of my whole entire life. Another 95% is just plain, spice, sugar and everything nice.
This is what I called best friends.
Then Keng Ling and gang, there is one time, I was so afraid that I might lose them, especially kengling. ( I am really sorry ) There is one time at your house, I saw your dairy and when I flipped it to my birthday date and other date pages.I barely see my name and my sensitivity had gotten me to feel that you don't miss me at all. I cried really badly most of the time because in SAC, there is no one is like you. Everyone knows how much you meant to me as a BFF. However, now since everything is getting better then I guess I should be satisfied.
And so.. Holidays. When it was reaching Sak and Siti's birthdays. The group of people died. Siti, your birthday, I was there with stace and peeps. Then there were no plans of clique outing because you know why. First, working. Second, people can't reschedule . Third, lame excuses. I am tired of listening and getting the same replies saying, I can't go because...And so, that's it. I didn't plan. Sak, when natalie bailed us, I was there. Gladys was there. The rest, I am speechless.About planning, I do not want to explain any further. Your birthday, I planned. Yeah doesn't sound like it. Because our own people didn't turn up. What I feel now about everything is that, I don't play apart in it anymore. So please don't blame me because I felt that I had done the best I could.
The rest... The ones that say "I miss you." Followed by "lets hang out soon k. Sorry " . Two words for you.. ' Fuck you '. If you think I am referring to you then yes it is. Your two best friends who you are about to lose, is going to be gone forever if you are not going to do anything about it. It is not the reason I want to hear, I am fine with anything not till I see that, our importance to you had gone. When you were in their crisis, we were there. We even lent a hand for everything, even the best we could ever bring and this is what we get. Sometimes, when I look at the FB, I didn't say anything because I am filled with so much disappointment that I rather not say a shit about it. I hope you reflect and do whatever you should do. Not to me but to the people who loves you.
Now, for everyone.. My final message is, please just stop being jerks. For the whole year and right now all you guys could ever think of is how bitch the person is? Yah most probably the person is but think, Loretta and Gladys, they were a bitch to me for a period of time but at the end of the day, aren't we still friends? I know not everyone is like me, to forgive and move on but don't you guys think that it makes sense that it is not worth to keep the negative perspective which happened within a period that couldnt compare with a year of good perspective? More over just left afew weeks to results and months to new life, after that, you guys can elimate whoever you want. But there is no way I am going to elimate Clare and Sam because I know, next year, it is their turn to go through the hardship we went before. They need us, like how much we needed each other previously.
Please. For once...
What I am about to say next might sound harsh because this is what I had been keeping it inside. I am going to voice out and this time, yes it is going to sound extremely one sided. I watched and listened everything that revolves around and I've got sick being the one, accused and helpless. So this is why I am doing this right now.
The way I listed the names, they could tell what I am thinking or what I am going to say. Let me start off with Gladys... She disappeared and that is the highlight of this end of year holiday. Beginning, I was mad but now, not so anymore. It probably sound like I had given up on her but come to think of everything she had done during the times when she was still present. I felt is memories that she left, just like as though she had died. ( touchwood ) If my best friend ever leave this world, will I still lose her as a best friend? No, I won't. Because my heart still remain that room for her. Remember the time when she came back from America and being a total bitch? In the end, I forgive her. We were all back in harmony. ( No offense ) The times, when she and Isabell was damnn close and I felt I am not anymore. Indeed I was angry but awhile, I still have her back as a best friend.
Another person, I would like to say is... Loretta. ( I hope she don't kill me ) Sometimes she gets the living nerve on me but I couldn't bring myself to really hate her. Why? Because she make a big change in my life. She makes me happy and I don't know why I just don't want to lose her. Siti knows it. She knows there are times when I am angry with Loretta but I just can't be angry in front of her because everytime, when I see her. I will turn back to 'best friend' channel. If I couldn't tolerate, wouldn't I have just burst and severe ties with her? NO! I WON'T AND WHY? Because she is one of my true friends, though sometimes she makes me angry but that only holds 5 % of my whole entire life. Another 95% is just plain, spice, sugar and everything nice.
This is what I called best friends.
Then Keng Ling and gang, there is one time, I was so afraid that I might lose them, especially kengling. ( I am really sorry ) There is one time at your house, I saw your dairy and when I flipped it to my birthday date and other date pages.I barely see my name and my sensitivity had gotten me to feel that you don't miss me at all. I cried really badly most of the time because in SAC, there is no one is like you. Everyone knows how much you meant to me as a BFF. However, now since everything is getting better then I guess I should be satisfied.
And so.. Holidays. When it was reaching Sak and Siti's birthdays. The group of people died. Siti, your birthday, I was there with stace and peeps. Then there were no plans of clique outing because you know why. First, working. Second, people can't reschedule . Third, lame excuses. I am tired of listening and getting the same replies saying, I can't go because...And so, that's it. I didn't plan. Sak, when natalie bailed us, I was there. Gladys was there. The rest, I am speechless.About planning, I do not want to explain any further. Your birthday, I planned. Yeah doesn't sound like it. Because our own people didn't turn up. What I feel now about everything is that, I don't play apart in it anymore. So please don't blame me because I felt that I had done the best I could.
The rest... The ones that say "I miss you." Followed by "lets hang out soon k. Sorry " . Two words for you.. ' Fuck you '. If you think I am referring to you then yes it is. Your two best friends who you are about to lose, is going to be gone forever if you are not going to do anything about it. It is not the reason I want to hear, I am fine with anything not till I see that, our importance to you had gone. When you were in their crisis, we were there. We even lent a hand for everything, even the best we could ever bring and this is what we get. Sometimes, when I look at the FB, I didn't say anything because I am filled with so much disappointment that I rather not say a shit about it. I hope you reflect and do whatever you should do. Not to me but to the people who loves you.
Now, for everyone.. My final message is, please just stop being jerks. For the whole year and right now all you guys could ever think of is how bitch the person is? Yah most probably the person is but think, Loretta and Gladys, they were a bitch to me for a period of time but at the end of the day, aren't we still friends? I know not everyone is like me, to forgive and move on but don't you guys think that it makes sense that it is not worth to keep the negative perspective which happened within a period that couldnt compare with a year of good perspective? More over just left afew weeks to results and months to new life, after that, you guys can elimate whoever you want. But there is no way I am going to elimate Clare and Sam because I know, next year, it is their turn to go through the hardship we went before. They need us, like how much we needed each other previously.
Please. For once...
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